Reviews of erotic dating sites
In this review we compare Czech erotic dating sites for August 2021, the most frequently mentioned and probably the biggest on the Czech internet - FlirtContact.cz, DivokeRande.cz.
To add Amatéři.cz (a very marginal dating site) and Tinder as a non-erotic dating site for comparison.
Test conditions
Men: (paid membership) - profile: looking for a slim girl for a long-term flirtation aged 26-42, I am 36 years old, 182cm, photo (see at the end of the article) + erotic photo athletic figure with a larger erect penis, gradually tried different descriptions of the person in the profile (indicating and not indicating hobbies, hobbies, education), 14 days marked as engaged and 14 days as single. Approximately 500 profiles contacted on Flirtkontakt and approximately 250 profiles on Wild Date. Net time spent: 40-50 hours throughout August 2021
Women: 2 days, no photos and no activity, unpaid membership (important VIP features are free for girls). Profile: age 31, slim, 160-170cm, married, boyfriend for flirting., testing time: 2 days
Summary:
According to the databases of both dating sites, there are 15 to 20 guys per girl in the 18-42 age group (the ratio even worsens with increasing age).
Of the stated users, the following will be active accounts about 1/3 or less (even less for girls thanks to fake profiles on some dating sites).
Good opportunity for girls (single or married). Important VIP features for free.
Ambiguous for the boys. Unpaid memberships are impossible to communicate with and useless. In a month of paid membership and 750 contacted girls from Prague on 2 biggest erotic dating sites I have not managed to meet anyone and even get contact (email, phone). We exchanged a few messages with about 8 slim girls (deeper on flirtkontakt) and that was the end of it. I didn't respond to about 3 offers of paid companions or girls looking for a sponsor. On the wild date I was contacted by about 10 thicker ladies 40+years old, and 2 paid companions (I didn't respond to those). Found 0 slim girls. If I devote those 40-50 hours of pure running around Prague, even by admitting the status "married" some 10 Emails or phone calls from slim I will talk ... . Found older so-called full-figured and chubby - 8.
Both dating sites have an estimated similar number of real users and use various unfair practices.
I can't judge to what extent this is reality and the extent to which erotic dating sites are just a Potemkin village - i.e. marketing drives users there who correspond mainly with bots and a few real users, and nothing comes of it in the end.
Test winner:
In general:
Flirt contactt is much more user-friendly and much cheaper than Wild Date (see more detailed comparison below) and it is a Czech company with a slightly higher guarantee of compliance with consumer protection and privacy regulations. At Flirt contactt users, both girls and guys in general, tried a bit harder to provide a photo that shows the user well, which makes it look more serious. There are also (despite more fake girl profiles and prostitute profiles) slightly nicer people - both women and men. Flirt contactt works better for users who care about appearance.
Wild Date works better for users without a photo or users less oriented to the partner's appearance and figure.
Guys:
At Wild Date A guy under 40 will probably get a "full-figured" or boubella over 40 quite easily.
But if you are looking for a nice paid companion or a girl to spoil with money, I recommend Flirt contactt.
If you are looking for a slim girl, you will no longer sponsor, it is better to go to her on a normally out and ask. If you're never going to be able to do that, then at Flirt contactt's more likely to meet a skinny girl than on a wild date. But it's a very big ordeal for months - totally crappy effectiveness against dating in reality.
Girls:
Girls with a photo make a splash on both dating sites and for a better user experience I recommend Flirt contactt. Flirt contactt is clearly better for girls looking for a lover-sponsor or paid companion, who are not censored as much there.
For girls without a photo or girls with a worse figure is clearly better Wild Date. Even a girl with no photo and no activity has a few real contacts pretty quickly.
Other dating sites:
Tinder was the inspiration for Wild Date in terms of mechanisms and user experience, but it is not an erotic dating site and in this respect it is not even close to one of these erotic dating sites. Don't look for a raida or an erotomaniac on Tinder. Amateurs.cz offers basically only advertising functions and functions only marginally as a dating site.
Flirtkontakt.cz (paid membership guys, unpaid membership girls)
This dating site works best with database and search filters, is more user-friendly and efficient, and membership is a bit cheaper than Wild Date. I was able to realize several message exchanges with about 7 real slim users. But the result was 0. A few offers from hidden prostitutes. About 40 messages from bots. As a girl without a photo, nothing.
Users in Prague 18-45 years old with photo - database (estimated about a quarter or less of profiles are active on a monthly basis)
girls 3204 , after adjusting by 30 percent the profiles of fake and real prostitutes 2242
A prostitute is often also identified by a professional or edited photo. A fake profile can be identified by checking the origin of the photos with Google or even better Yandex search engines.
For the whole Czech Republic (smaller cities - less anonymity) multiply it by eight (+age 46-65), i.e., for the Czech Republic about 30 000 real registrations of girls 18-65 years old. Half of them may be active. I.e. there will be about 2-3 out of 1000 female residents on such a dating site (1 of them active).
Benefits
++ 1 paid member can search for a match with filters: region, city, age, with photo, by status (single, single, divorced, etc.). For example in Prague there are 2995 profiles of girls from 18- 42 years old with photo (30 000 without photo).
+2 counterpart's profile will show the practices that counterpart likes
+3 counterpart profile will show the age range in which he/she is looking for a partner
+4 you can write a long enough text in your profile
+5 You can put a link to yourself in your profile
+6 unlimited messages (paying members)
+7 For people you friend request, you can see when they were last online
+8 membership 350 CZK
++ 9 Big plus against Tinder - the girls here are mostly pretty and slim
+ 10 approx. 20% more users than on Wild Date
+11 can be searched by nickname
+ 12 mechanisms for profile verification (photo of newspaper or photo with specified caption)
+ 13 Czech companies, more control from the CTIA and easier handling of complaints
Neutral - VIP membership for girls for free ( 🙂 there's no other way)
cons
-1 automatic charge once a month - must be terminated
-2 only 2 photos can be uploaded
- 3 unfair practices - lots of fake profiles and prostitutes
- 4 part of the support can't speak Czech, goes through google translate and answers more complicated questions with nonsense
— 5 unfair practices - frequent fake accounts even write you frequent fake robot messages like adult dating site Ashley Madison had an affair (more article Ashley Madison - a dating site that makes money from shoes and fraudulent profiles) - I won't tell the admins how to tell, but you will know. They keep your email in the database even after you delete your account
- You cannot delete your account - you need to request support. Similarly, paid memberships are automatically charged to the credit card for the following months.
DivokeRande.cz (paid membership guys, unpaid membership girls)
At Wild Date I was getting real messages even as a girl without a picture. About 30 contacts the first 2 hours (it makes newbies visible) and about 30 contacts the next 3 weeks. On the wild date I got a few offers from older chicks and 2 from prostitutes. I managed to realize several message exchanges with about 1-2 real slim users. But the result was 0.
users in Prague with photo (about a quarter or less may be active)
age 18-25 girls 1000 profiles
age 26-35 - girls 860 profiles (after adjusting for fake profiles and prostitutes and one month of inactive users - estimated 700), boys 11539 (real 11000) - ratio 13,4 boys per girl (15.7 in real terms).
age 36-45 - girls 520 (real 450), boys 10040 (9700), ratio 19,3 boys per girl (21.5 in real terms)
girls 18-45 years 2380 profiles (realistically approx. 1800) profiles
The resulting situation will definitely not be 571TP3Men and 43% women, as the dating site falsely states, but much worse - my guess 97% men and 3% women (they just shifted the 40% to women). This is, among other things, misleading advertising.
Benefits:
+1 can upload up to 5 photos
++ 2 Big plus against Tinder - the girls here are mostly pretty and slim
+ 3 less prostitutes and fake profiles than on Flirtkontakt
++ 4 you can set the region and city filter and a limited age filter after 10 years, also a filter "with photo", according to the status (single, divorced, etc.)
Neutral
VIP membership for girls for free ( 🙂 there's no other way)
The VIP function, who looked at your profile - is basically useless, because you don't know - whether she didn't like you, she doesn't want you, or she ran out of the 30 likes per day limit
Disadvantages:
- 1 profile doesn't show practices the counterpart likes
- 2 you can only put about 10 sentences in your profile
- 3 only 30 messages and likes per day (and that's a VIP feature!!)
- 4 memberships 550 per month
- 5 The account cannot be deleted - support must be requested. Paid membership -550 CZK is automatically charged to the credit card for the next months (must be cancelled one week in advance).
- 6 anti-flirt contact not searchable by nickname
- 7 dating sites falsely state the ratio of boys to girls with extreme deviation
- 8 There is no contact with the Swiss owners, they do not respond to emails. The hallmark of scumbags.
- 9 Unfair and unlawful practices - false user to user ratio 57/43 reality 97/3, completely false is the claim that every female profile is consistently verified - unlike flirtkontakt they don't even have a verification mechanism in place, they keep photos including erotic ones even after you have deleted them from your profile. I suspect they also use fake messages from fake female profiles, but at least not as blatantly as flirtkontakt.
- 10 cannot change age
- 11 Swiss company, worse oversight by the CTIA, risk of worse enforcement of claims, less oversight by the data protection authority
Tinder.com (paid membership)
On the search for a relationship can work. Compared to erotic dating sites, it is weak and more of a money grab. For flirting, if you don't want to lie to your partner and pretend to be interested in a relationship, in my opinion it is useless.
Disadvantages
-1 Compared to erotic dating sites and a lot of less pretty girls.
- 2 month membership 580,-
- 3 lots of people who don't know what they want
- 4 What fascinated me was that about 20% women aged 30 and over shamelessly take their age, a large percentage of 10-15 years (on the profile of a 29 year old you often see a 50 year old photo), this is not to such an extent on erotic dating sites.
- age cannot be changed
Benefits:
+ small advantage - automatic renewal of paid automatic membership can be deactivated in the settings
Amateurs.cz
This Portal primarily works for the exchange of erotic video-audio content. Dating is just an add-on and not very hilarious. Here it's basically an ad with no filters and almost unusable as a dating site. If you like to watch lots of wankers without faces, this will be your cup of tea :0).
Annonce.cz (erotic services)
For completeness. It is not a dating site, but it is the only one of the databases of paid companions that offers a filter by location and also by the practices offered.
Tips for meeting on an erotic dating site
1. Address only your partner of +- 5 years (maximum +-7). Otherwise, they won't want you and even if they do (sometimes even 15 years younger will respond), you won't get along later. And most importantly, you won't waste your time or the girls' time by embarrassing them for others.
2. Don't send your photos and videos to anyone you haven't seen in person before.
3. Girls can do just fine without a photo (offers are more desperate, a lot from grandfathers, but there are a lot of them). Guys, don't even go in there without a photo.
4. If you belong to the rare group of girls who are only looking for a good time, a sex dating site will be a golden grail for you. If you put a photo of your face or body, within a few hours you have a couple of lovers.
5. If you don't mind thicker and older girls, erotic dating can be a good place for an easy, non-committal and financially undemanding encounter. If you belong to the group of busy guys and you are looking for a slim girl for a longer flirtation, it is quite difficult and the time is simply not worth it on a dating site, because in reality it is a bit easier. Especially if you are taken and busy. It's probably more efficient to pay someone. It's just that paid companions are not very nice and quite volatile. Often, for a nice photo, you will be called to a private place, where only someone else and much worse is available. In addition, on advertising servers - the best is probably annonce.cz - they do not show their faces, unlike erotic dating sites. For the busy and busy, this dating site can be a place where they can find a nice paid companion. If you are A available, B committed and time permitting you have some chances for a normal slim mistress, but even so it will cost you 10 times more effort on an erotic dating site than if you tried it on a blind in reality.
6. What to fill in your profile: Definitely info if you are looking for a boyfriend/girlfriend or just a fling and your status (single or single). The rest doesn't matter for girls. Guys should write a little about themselves. A lot of girls put emphasis on grammar. I've tried (marked as taken, only looking for a long term loving relationship, nothing more) different things, but the result was always the same - zero encounters and about 1 reply to 30 invitations for a drink or dinner.
7. Selfies look stupid, but most dating site users use them. Even people who don't like to take pictures or are in a relationship and want a discreet photo. If you do take a selfie, squint slightly or it will take your eyes desperately open to the lens (girls on Tinder especially suffer from this). Ideally, ask a friend. Better, from my point of view, a natural photo (even a selfie) than a polished photoshop photo ala instragram ad prostitute.
8. To give an erotic photo or not? Erotic photos are preferred by the wilder girls and probably the more respectable ones. They're not buying a rabbit in the bag. An erotic photo also shows the courage to go all out. Many girls are willing to wait and some even ask for size or even make it a condition. But the erotic photo is not important. A photo in a swimsuit, elastic clothing and for a girl in any kind of clothing or just her face or just her figure is enough.
9. If you get a phone call from a specified, be discreet. Always follow up with a text message first to see if you can make the call. E.g. "Call me when I can call you".
10. There's no magic advice for guys, but luck can go a bit against the grain with a normal photo (i.e. not demented) and a profile. There's usually no need to spike it with sex right away in the first message. If you don't manage to meet anyone in a month or at least get a cell phone or email and communicate outside the dating site, pack it in. Quite possibly you're just texting with a bot and you'll find better luck in real life.
12. Don't write about how some people annoy you and what you don't like. Be positive. Don't play at anything, don't insult others - you are not there for criticism.
What kind of people are on erotic dating sites
As a guy, I can speak mostly about girls 18-42. I've texted a few of them and I thought they were cool. Many from a sex ray perspective. About 60%-70% of girls are looking for a relationship (of which 10-15% just want to write and exchange pics, i.e. potential relationship or pervert to guys). On erotic dating sites, there are basically only slim and pretty girls up to the age of 40. Part of the girls' profiles are fake profiles, perverts and part are real users, where the less pretty ones don't go into such competition, although they could easily and would have great success. Approximately 10% are girls who are only looking for a fling, not a relationship. They have even higher dozens of offers and contacts a day. The girls had nice civilian and most even erotic or at least sexy pics. No need to get naked, but girls understand the need for a reasonable presentation a little better. Girls on sex dating sites aged 30+ look a bit older in real life in a photo. The photos may be negatively misrepresenting or rather the women are undershooting their age.
So for guys aged 26-35, you would expect the equivalent to be all shampoo and buns. On flirtcontact, they were normal guys. On Wild Date, it was normal guys, but desperate guys in large numbers. It's like there was this idea that it was cool to take pictures of a dude in sweatpants or kulichemn stuck up to his mouth. Most of them only have one photo, which you can't tell much from.
Basically, it's going to be about normal people - a little bit prettier, bolder and maybe more laid back (than normal) who are more into sex than others. You'll also meet some nice, easy-going bitches there. A couple of the girls said there were quite a few perverts. I got about 40 messages on my Nina test profile in 2 days and not a single creep. For a lot of girls, even a normal guy who asks for sex in the first message on a dating site is a pervert...
editor extasica.com (photo 08/2021)
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