Reviews of erotic dating sites
How do erotic dating sites work? Is there a point in going to an erotic dating site? What tricks do erotic dating sites and their users use? Comparison of erotic dating sites.
Test conditions
a man's ad: (paid membership) - profile: looking for a slim girl for a long-term flirt aged 26-42, 36 years old, 182cm, photo (see at the end of the article) + erotic photo athletic figure with a larger erect penis, gradually tried different descriptions of the person in the profile (with and without hobbies, education), 14 days marked as engaged and 14 days as single. Approximately 500 profiles contacted on Flirtkontakt and approximately 250 profiles contacted on Wild Date. Net time spent: 40-50 hours throughout August 2021
Women: no photo and no activity, unpaid membership (important VIP features are free for girls). Profile: age 31, slim, 160-170cm, married, guy to flirt with. Testing time: 2 days
Summary of erotic dating sites reviews
According to the databases of both dating sites, there are 15 to 20 guys per girl in the 18-42 age group. With increasing age, the ratio even worsens. We estimate that only a maximum of 5% female profiles are real and active. After cleaning up inactive profiles and fake profiles or profiles of prostitutes, they can be the real ratio of women to men on erotic dating sites is 1 in 30 to 1 in 50.
Good opportunity for girls (single or married). Important VIP features for free. Girls with a photo will make a splash on both dating sites. Flirtkontakt is better for girls looking for rich lovers or handsome lovers due to less censorship of paid companions. For girls without a photo or girls with a worse figure, WildDate is better. Even a girl with no photo and no activity has several real contacts within a few minutes.
Ambiguous for the boys. Out of 750 attempts over 14 days and 50 hours of net time, no personal or telephone contact. Only about 1-4 messages with 10 real slim girls. Rejected 3 stronger women and a few prostitutes. If you don't mind a thicker or fatter woman, it is realistic to find a mistress on an erotic dating site. To slim, it is more effective to look outside.
Flirtkontakt is more user-friendly and cheaper than DivokeRande Flirtkontakt is visited by prettier people - both women and men - and also tries to deliver a better photo. DivokeRande works better for users without a photo or users less oriented to the partner's appearance and figure.
Unfair practices of erotic dating sites
Both tested dating sites have an estimated similar number of real users and use various unfair practices.
Deleting an erotic photo does not delete the photo from the database! Just delete the photo and make it unavailable to the public. Deleting an account even after years doesn't delete the account, it just makes the account unavailable to the public! Fundamentally a violation of GDPR and data protection law.
The dating site DivokeRande blatantly and completely misrepresents the resulting ratio of men to women 57% men and 43% women. According to the Divokorande dating site database itself, there are 80 men for every 20 women. After adjusting for inactive and fake profiles. 97% men and 3% women.
Especially on the dating site Flirtkontakt there are many fake robot accounts with AI photos. By 2023, it will be more challenging to spot fake profiles managed by advanced Chat GPT-type AI language models, trained specifically for an erotic dating site. AI images can be recognised by the polish of the characters and the blurriness of the background.
Membership must be cancelled by email, otherwise the membership fee is automatically deducted each month.
Other dating sites:
Tinder is not an erotic dating site and in this respect it cannot be compared to it. Don't look for a sex raider or an erotomaniac on Tinder. www.Amatéři.cz offers advertising functions, but as a dating site it functions more marginally.
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Flirtkontakt.cz (paid membership guys, unpaid membership girls)
This dating site works best with database and search filters, is more user-friendly and efficient, and membership is a bit cheaper than Wild Date.
As a girl without a photo: nothing
As a boy.: Users women in Prague 18-45 years old with a photo - database of 3204 women
Estimated max one tenth or less of profiles are active on a monthly basis and some are fake robot profiles -estimate 30% and some are prostitutes estimate 20%. A prostitute is often also identified by a professional or edited photo. For the reported number of female users, I estimate only 5% actual and active women. That means 160 women 18-45 years old with a photo the city of Prague with 1.5 million inhabitants.
With a time commitment of 35 hours, I have interviewed 500 women. We exchanged 1-4 short messages with 7 real slim female users. That was the end of it. But the result was 0. A few offers from hidden prostitutes. About 40 messages from bots.
The "furthest" was with a pretty slim 30 year old married woman. She wanted someone single and not risk a clash with a jealous wife.
Benefits
++ paid member can search for a match with filters: region, city, age, with photo, by status (single, single, divorced, etc.). E.g. in Prague there are v4etn2 fale3n7ch profiles; 2995 profiles of girls from 18- 42 years old with photo (30 000 without photo).
+profile the counterpart to show the practices the counterpart likes
+profile of the counterpart will show the age range in which he/she is looking for a partner
+You can write long enough text in your profile
+ you can put a link to yourself in your profile
+ unlimited messages (paying members)
+ For people you friend request, you can see when they were last online
+ membership only 350 CZK for 30 days, free for girls ( 🙂 otherwise it is not possible)
++ Big plus against Tinder - the girls here are mostly pretty and slim
+ about 20% more users than on Wild Date
+ can be searched by nickname
+ mechanism for profile verification (photo of newspaper or photo with specified caption)
Negative
— unfair practices: see summary at the beginning. Also lots of fake profiles and prostitutes. Frequent fake accounts even write you frequent fake robotic messages like the infamous dating site Ashley Madison
- only 2 photos can be uploaded
- part of the support can't speak Czech, goes through google translate and answers more complicated questions with nonsense
DivokeRande.cz (paid membership guys, unpaid membership girls)
Girl: I used to get real messages on Wild Date even as a girl without a photo with a free VIP membership. About 30 contacts for the first two hours (it makes newbies visible) and about 30 contacts for the next 3 weeks.
Boy: 14 days, net time 15 hours. After the failure on Flirtkontakt, I was taking it faster. 250 women lead. I got several offers from older stronger women and 2 from prostitutes. I managed to realize several message exchanges with about 1-2 real slim female users. But the result was 0. For the record, I even had 1 funny phone call in this dating effort - Friday 11.30pm with a jealous female friend who saved my phone number. I introduced myself and he said "Who's that?" I replied. "Well, I don't know, you're calling ..." He hung up the phone.
users - girls in Prague with photo - formal number of profiles
18-25 years 1000 profiles of women
26-35 - girls 860 profiles of women. Ratio of guys (11539) to girls according to the database 13,4 without cleansing and inactive and fake girls.
36-45 years - 520 profiles of women. Ratio of boys (10040) to girls according to the database 19,3 without cleansing and inactive and fake girls.
The dating site DivokeRande blatantly and completely falsely states the resulting male to female ratio as 57% men and 43% women. According to the Divkorande dating site's own database, it is 80 men to 20 women. After adjusting for inactive and fake profiles, this would be 97% men and 3% women. The dating site simply falsely converted 40% men to women after a real calculation to even out the sex ratio. This is deceptive advertising.
Benefits:
+up to 5 photos can be uploaded
++ Big plus against Tinder - the girls here are mostly pretty and slim
+ less prostitutes and fake profiles than on Flirtkontakt
++ It is possible to set the filter of region and city and limited filter of age after 10 years, also filter "with photo", according to the status (single, divorced, etc.)
Neutral: the VIP function, who looked at your profile - is basically useless, because you don't know - whether she didn't like you, she doesn't want you, or she ran out of the 30 likes per day limit
Disadvantages:
- the profile does not show sexual practices and you can only put about 10 sentences in the profile
- only 30 messages and likes per day (and it's a VIP feature!!!)
- more expensive membership 550 per month, plus must be cancelled one week before the end of the period
- against Flirtkontakt can not be searched by nickname
- no contact with the Swiss owners, they don't respond to emails. The hallmark of scumbags.
- Unfair and unlawful practices - see summary at the beginning. Furthermore, the false reported male/female ratio of 57/43 a reality of 97/3. Completely false is the claim that every female profile is rigorously verified. Unlike Flirtkontakt they don't even have a verification mechanism in place. !!!It keeps photos, including erotic ones, even after you have deleted them from your profile. I suspect fake news from fake female profiles. But they don't do it as blatantly as flirtcontact.
- age cannot be changed
Tinder.com (paid membership)
On the search for a relationship can work. For flirting, if you don't want to lie to your partner and pretend to be interested in a relationship in my opinion useless.
Disadvantages:
- membership month 580,-
- a lot of people who don't know what they want
- about 20% women aged 30 and over are shamelessly taking on an age of 10-15 years. It's not uncommon to see a 50 year old photo on a 29 year old's profile. That's not the case on erotic dating sites to that extent.
- age cannot be changed
Benefits:
+ real users
+ small advantage - automatic renewal of paid automatic membership can be deactivated in the settings
www.amateri.cz
This portal primarily functions for the exchange of erotic video-audio content. The dating site is just a supplement and not very hilarious. Here it's basically a classified ad with no filters and almost unusable as a dating site. If you like to watch lots of wankers without faces, this will be your cup of tea :0).
www.annonce.cz (erotic services)
For completeness. It is not a dating site, but it is the only one of the databases of paid sexual companions that offers a filter by location and also by the practices offered.
Tips for meeting on an erotic dating site
1. Only approach a partner with a maximum age difference of 5 years. Otherwise they won't want you or you won't understand each other and you are wasting your time and the time of other users.
2. Do not send your photos and videos before personal contact or better not at all.
3. The girls can advertise just fine without a photo (the offers are more desperate, but there are a lot of them, even grandfathers ), but they'll still be in over their heads. Guys without a photo don't even go on a sex site.
4. If you don't mind thicker and older girls, erotic dating can be a good place for an easy, non-committal and financially undemanding encounter. Otherwise, prepare a bundle of money or look elsewhere. There's no magic advice for guys, but luck can go a bit against the grain with a normal photo (i.e. not demented) and a profile. There's usually no need to spike the sex in the first message right away. If you don't manage to meet anyone in a month or at least get a cell phone or email and communicate outside the dating site, pack it in. Quite possibly you're just texting with a bot and you'll find better luck in real life.
5. What to fill in your profile: Definitely info if you are looking for a boyfriend/girlfriend or just a fling and your status (single or single). The rest doesn't matter for girls. Guys should write a little about themselves. A lot of girls put emphasis on grammar. I've tried (marked as taken, only looking for a long term loving relationship, nothing more) different things, but the result was always the same - zero encounters and about 1 reply to 30 invitations for a drink or dinner.
6. Selfies look stupid, but most dating site users use them for easy discreet taking. When taking a selfie, squint slightly, otherwise your eyes are desperately open to the lens (girls on Tinder especially suffer from this). Ideally, ask a friend. A natural photo (even a selfie) is better than a polished Instragram ad prostitute/photoshop photo.
7. To give an erotic photo or not? Erotic photos are preferred by wilder and decent girls. They're not buying a rabbit in the bag. An erotic photo also shows the courage to go all out. Many girls are willing to wait and some even ask for penis size or even make it a condition. But even a photo in a swimsuit, elastic clothing is enough. A photo of a girl in any kind of clothing or just her face or just her figure is enough.
8. If you receive a phone call from a specified person, be discreet. Always follow up with a text message first to see if you can make the call. E.g. "Call me when I can call you".
9. Don't write about how some people annoy you and what you don't like. Be positive. Don't play at anything, don't insult others - you are not there for criticism.
10. There are a lot of fake profiles on erotic dating sites. Until 2023, a fake profile could be easily recognized by artificial answers or by checking the origin of the photos of Google or even better Yandex search engines. Since 2023 with language models like Chat GPT. This will be much harder. AI models trained on erotic dating sites will be able to generate erotic pictures of the same (virtual) girl you are texting with thinking she is real. You can recognize AI images by the polish of the characters and the blurriness of the background.
What kind of people are on erotic dating sites
As a guy, I can speak mostly about girls 18-42. I've texted a few of them and thought they were cool. Many from the looks of Agata Hanych type girls who have sex written all over their faces. About 60%-70% girls looking for a relationship (of which 10-15% just want to text and exchange pics, i.e. just a potential relationship or even a pervert for guys).
On erotic dating sites there are basically only slim and pretty girls up to the age of 40. At least according to the profile pictures :). Part of the girls' profiles are fake profiles, perverts and part are real users, where the less pretty ones don't go to such competition, although they could easily and would have great success. Approximately 10% are girls who are only looking for a fling, not a relationship. They have even higher dozens of offers and contacts a day.
The girls had nice civilian and most of them had erotic or at least sexy photos. Girls understand the need for a reasonable presentation a little better. Girls on sex dating sites aged 30+ look a bit older in photos than their stated age. Many women artificially lower their age or they are robotic profiles.
So for guys 26-35 years old, you would expect the equivalent to be all shampoos with buns on their bellies. On Flirtkontakt, they were normal guys. On Divokerand, it was normal guys, but desperate guys in large numbers. It was like there was this idea that it was cool to take a picture of a dork in sweatpants or a ball gagged up to his mouth. Most of the guys only have one more photo. You can't tell much from that one.
Basically, it's going to be normal people - a little prettier, bolder and maybe more laid back (than normal). They're more into sex than others. You'll meet some nice prostitutes there, too. A couple of the girls said there are a lot of perverts. I got about 40 messages in 2 days on the test profile of a woman named Nina, and not a single creep. For a lot of girls, even a normal guy who asks for sex in the first message on a dating site is a pervert...
